Back in California , I
headed up north for a weekend, to attend my brother’s college graduation in Reno . I hadn’t ever visited his college in the four
years he had been there, so it was interesting to see what he had been up to. He was still doing work in the machine shop
the night before graduation, on some off his own projects. It was amusing to see that he was the one
that everyone came to with questions about any of the equipment or tools, and
for advice on how to do particularly complex operations. He was clearly the most knowledgeable person
there. It reminded me of my own
experiences in the computer labs at school.
It was probably the first time I really identified with my brother in
any significant way, or related to his perspective at all. He was no longer just an impatient source of
annoyance, but an accomplished and respected member of his community of
engineers.
I returned to LA immediately, and continued to work on
processing the footage from Key West ,
and support the editorial efforts. We
soon had extended versions finished of the two scenes we had shot. These were used as proof of concept, to show
that our plan to use active duty personnel as the main characters in our movie
was a workable idea, and to generate interest with potential investors.
I also tried my first stint with baby sitting, taking care
of Scott’s kids one evening. The church
was putting on some sort of women’s event, which involved all of his usual
options for that role, so I agreed to step in, since his kids knew me from Bible Study. It was admittedly made easier by the fact that
they had put the kids to bed before I arrived, and I was just going to watch a
movie while they were out hosting the event for a couple of hours. But as soon as they left, their three year old
was up, asking for his parents. I
averted the impending crying episode by playing the “you’re a big boy now”
card, which actually worked better than I expected. I helped him use the bathroom, and then
eventually got him to go back to bed.
The rest of the evening was uneventful, but I was relieved when they
returned, and didn’t repeat the experience for another five years.
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